So what are exactly stress to you? Is it a challenge for you to overcome? Or is it a resistor for you to advance? Basically they both mean the same but that's not important, Stress is actually caused by many many things in life simply by the simplest things like one thing I'm always stressed about even when I'm doing something that is suppose to release my stress, [LAG]. Games don't actually make us violent, but the lag makes us violent. Simply by lagging 1 or 2 seconds can cost you and your team's lives, and YES! that is indeed a stressful thing. But i will now tell you other stuff that makes us " The Angels that wants knowledge" stress.
Obviously the first thing that comes into your mind when it comes to stress is studies, academics and stuff about educations. Why is this always a main cause of our stress? Because apparently PEOPLE have high expectations for us when it comes to studying, you don't study well, down goes your reputation in your family. You will be called as a "useless" even in your own family (not me i didn't get called that before). But even so, it is still stressful even if you're not called useless in the family. High Expectation = Good Grades = Study More = Stress. And when your grades turn out not what they expected, Bad Grades = Expectation Not Met = "Useless" = Stress.
It is so much stress just to write all those, so we should move on to the next point. FINANCE, yes, financial problems will cause stress too, but how? Well, simply by, Poor = Study While Working = Lack Of Time To Study = Bad Grades = Expectation Not Met = "Useless" = Stress. It all relates back to the same thing, but for this point, having financial problem will have stress on it's own. Parents will make their children to work with them, normally at selling stuff, and if they don't sell out much, the poor children will be used as a "scolding bag" for the parents to release their stress. But what do the poor little children get to use? THAT'S RIGHT! THEY HAVE NOTHING D; because they respect their parents so they can't scold back at them.
Next point is about family problems, yes it is all related back to the same thing. There are many family problems that can cause stress to the kids. Example, a divorce is like a ticket for a kid's mind to get instantly blown to pieces, when parents get divorce, some don't even care about the kids anymore which will make the kids feel uneasy and unsure of what to do as they have never experience anything like it before. Which will eventually lead them to stress, focusing studies while watching one of your parents have a new partner is like STRESS + STRESS = [ 1 x 10^99 Stress ]. ESPECIALLY IF YOUR STEP-[insert parent] HATES YOU !!!
Moral of the story, please don't do anything that will make your kids get more stress just from their studies alone. I do hope I won't do something stupid that will make me get a divorce when I grow up because I don't want my kids to be stressful people D:
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